How To Stop Being Shy Around Girls (Proven Tricks)

How To Stop Being Shy Around Girls (Proven Tricks)

Gentlemen, today we’re showing you 10 powerful ways to stop being shy around girls...

And start becoming the outspoken and charismatic guy you know you are.

And because we want your newfound confidence to be a genuine part of your personality,

We’re also showing the #1 trap guys fall
into that actually undermines their confidence

and sends them sliding right back towards
shyness.

Let’s jump in.


To kick off our list we’re going back to

the basics...

Way, way back.

All the way to the father of Western Philosophy
and heavyweight champion of the world...Socrates.

Socrates once said this:
“The unexamined life ...is not worth living.”

In other words, to live your life to the fullest,
You’ve got to think about what makes you

who you are.

OK...A) haven’t we said this before?

And B?

What does knowing myself have to do with being
shy?

I’ll tell you.

There are 2 types of shyness is this world:
Shyness as a result of being uncomfortable

around others...

And shyness as a result of being uncomfortable
with yourself.

We’ll talk about the first kind in a minute,
but for now...

We’re gonna let you in on how to handle
shyness that’s a result of being uncomfortable

with yourself.

Basically, if you’re not comfortable with
yourself, meaning you don’t like the way

you look,
You don’t think you’re that interesting

or you’re not a “people person,”
Most of the time you’re hanging out with

anybody, and especially girls,
All you’re going to be thinking about are

your shortcomings.

Bringing it all back...

Taking the time to learn who you are, what
you like, what you’re interested in, what

you’re good at,
and getting comfortable with what you’re

less good at,
Is the only way to reach the level of unbreakable

confidence that comes with being less of a
shy guy.


No matter the cause of your shyness, if it’s

something you worry about,
You can either accept that it’s part of

who you are (which might be just fine)
Or you’re gonna have to put in some work

to move past it.

Since you’re here,
You’ve probably thought about being more

outgoing as a door-opener that you’re not
exactly taking advantage of.

So how do you practice being less shy?

Exposure.

Exposure therapy is a technique used by therapists
around the world to get people to ...change

their ways.

It works for anything.

Want to get better at public speaking?

Get exposed to more public speaking events.

Scared of cats?

It’ll work for that too.

Shy around girls?

More exposure to them is all you need.

Just like getting strong in the gym.

High volume, low pressure is key.

If you want to get better, practice in relaxed,
no-consequence situations.

Talk to new people (guys and girls) everyday.

Small talk, big talk, whatever.

Just chat.

You’ll learn what kind of conversation you’re
good at, what you need to work on,

And you’ll also become way less shy around
everyone.


For quiet guys, burn out can happen quickly.

And breaking outta that shell is hard work.

But what most guys don’t know,
Is that extroverts have a lot of little tricks

up their sleeves to make it look like it all
comes naturally.

But we’re callin’ shenanigans cause like
everything, there’s a lot that goes on behind

the scenes.

The trick to success with girls... isn’t
just to try to be less shy,

It’s to get girls to be more receptive.

It kinda works like jiu jitsu.

With a few smart moves,
You can use the right leverage at the right

time,
And most of the hard work is done.

You’ve saved your juice and you don’t
even have to worry about being shy.

So, moral of the story, learn jiu jitsu, use
girl’s momentum against them,.

And oh, what’s this?

A Vincero watch?

What perfect timing!

Today’s video is sponsored by Vincero and
as it happens,

They also know a thing or two about using
that old brain muscle to git’ what ya want.

For shy guys, or any guy, a watch should be
part of any guy’s Batcave.

It’s not gonna do the dishes for ya,
But it can do some of the heavy lifting when

it comes to sparking up conversations with
girls.

It works like this:
Where guys see girls as pretty much thumbs

up, thumbs down...

It’s a little more complicated on the ladies’
side.

Girls look at guys as the sum of their parts...
meaning, and the good news with women,

It’s never pass/fail.

You can always do something to put you up
a few points and avoid… sudden death.

So… added to all of your other awesomeness,
a nice, classic watch...

Is often enough to push you past the line,
and get girls to lure you out of your shy

demeanor.

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Here’s a little old trick we stole when

we cut a hole into the fence and took a trip
to PUA-land...

but it’s one we think helps a lot of guys
break through shyness.

For better or worse, memorizing a few conversation
starters is a timeless strategy.

And the reason why it works?

It makes guys get out of their own way.

By preparing beforehand,
They don’t have to worry about what they’re

gonna talk about, they’ve got that covered.

And as a result,
less shyness.

Less you.

More do.

The only thing is, while canned responses
may make opening conversations easier,

More often than not, conversation starters
can feel forced and unnatural.

Instead of feeling shy,
you just end up feeling awkward...and kinda

like you were right for being shy,
and maybe like you should think about going

back to school.

Well slow down there!

Cause it ain’t all bad.

Just get in the habit of taking stock of what’s
around you.

Simply by being more observant,
You’ll find yourself with no shortage of

things to talk about.


Legend has it that Michael Jordan wore his

college shorts underneath his Bulls uniform
for every single game.

Superstition?

Or the key to 6 NBA titles and 5 MVPs?

You tell me.

Either way,
MJ’s lucky shorts might hold the key to

being less shy around girls.

What do we mean?

Dressing in a way that makes you feel good
about yourself gives you a boost of confidence

that is anything but superstition.

So don’t be ashamed to take a look in the
mirror before you leave the house.

Soak it up.

Give yourself some credit.

And once you’re sure you like the way you
look...

You’ll deal with some of the self-consciousness
at the root of shyness

And start approaching girls with a confidence
that they’ll be sure to notice.

Guys!

If you like our stuff, keep watching.

Because we’ve got five more tips to being
less shy around girls

And the number one thing you don’t wanna
do if your goal is to be more outgoing around girls.

Let’s get back to it.


Some say the world’s best wingmen can actually

make you less shy.

We’ve heard that their pep-talks are so
strong, they’re illegal in 14 countries.

While we can neither confirm or deny, a good
wingman is undeniably helpful in boosting

confidence...

And crushing shyness into submission.

A good wingman makes you look good in front
of the girl you’re into,

but choose the wrong wingman and it can spell
disaster.

A lot of guys choose their best bud as their
wingman,

And then they’re surprised when their wingman
makes fun of them or brings up embarrassing

stories, and shatters their confidence when it’s needed most.


Maybe very surprisingly, local breweries are

ideal locations for squashing shyness.

But not for the reasons you might think...

Sure there’s beer, but as is tradition,
The brewery, bar, pub, or whatever you call

it, are regular meeting places for all kinds
of groups.

And these days,
You can find ‘em hosting a ton of meetups

for pre and post physical activity.

Running, rock climbing, biking, laser tag,
powerlifting.

If it involves using your body,
There’s probably a beer meetup going on

at a brewery for it.

Not only has study after study shown that
physical activity boosts self-esteem and makes

people feel good,
But it’s also a great way to stop being

shy around girls and meet women in fun, low
pressure settings.


In the same way that being like Mike boosts

your confidence,
Changing your body language not only makes

you look more confident to girls, it will
actually make you feel less shy.

Good posture builds confidence from the outside
in, so while you might start out just copying

confident body language,
Soon you’ll find that your confidence really

is a part of you.

And you won’t be the only one who notices...

Confident body language gets women’s attention
and piques their interest,

And nothing helps cure shyness like catching
glances from the ladies.

We’ve done a ton on body language.

For more body language tips to help you look
the part, check out this video:


In case you haven’t realized it by now…

the difference between confidence and shyness
is mostly mental...

And the biggest mental hurdle shy guys need
to jump is realizing that there’s no real

reason for their shyness.

If you can remember that the girl you have
a crush on is a regular human being just like

you,
Then the feelings of shyness and intimidation

will start to dissolve on their own.

It’s the wisdom behind picturing people
in their underwear during a speech or a presentation

And it helps you to realize that the only
thing holding you back is yourself.

So keep your perspective and remember that
while she might be special, she’s not too

special to talk to.


So now that we’ve gotten to the root of

your shyness and developed techniques to build
genuine confidence...

The last thing you need to do is face your
fear and start meeting girls.

Wait...

If you have confidence, shouldn’t that mean
you have no fears left to face?

Wrong.

Confidence isn’t the absence of fear...it’s
the willingness to act even when you are afraid.

So don’t worry if you still feel some butterflies
around your crush, .

As soon as you say something, and start using
that brain of yours that got you this far,

You’ll committed to conversation and most
of your shyness problems, will take care of

themselves.

As promised: Here is the #1 thing guys do
that undoes all their efforts at conquering

shyness...

And makes them look less confident to the
women they want to approach.

We call it “The Chihuahua.”

Everybody knows chihuahuas.

They’re notorious for making lots noise
but actually being terrified.

Sound familiar?

Guys who rev their engines at girls walking
along the street or call out to women they

see across the room are making a lot of noise...

But they’re revealing that deep down, they’re
actually terrified.

Sure sometimes you’ve got to fake it till
you make it,

But The Chihuahua never really makes it, and
it’s obvious how fake that confidence is.

Instead, focus on developing real confidence.

Not only can girls tell the difference, but
your self-esteem will go through the roof.

Those are the 10 ways to stop being shy around
girls and the number 1 thing that shatters

your confidence.